The one about life is too short for… bad sex, bad food, watered down cocktails & the one that “gets around.”
I experience life as “moments of loving & learning.” And myyy have I had some exquisite moments of loving🥰😉
I had a woman message me yesterday stating she wanted to embrace her sexuality, but was afraid of exploring & being judged as the woman who “gets around” vs “perfect.”
She recently transformed her body, lost weight, feelin good about herself, & finally in a position to date. I can empathize. I too have lost 60 lbs in my lifetime.
Lemme tell ya…real women aren’t perfect. And perfect women aren’t real. We all out here with stretch marks, cellulite, hair in weird places, & skeletons in our closets.
It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks it only matters what you think. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
Take the one that “gets around.” Here’s my 42 year old perspective. My observation & experience is the only thing that matters on my opinion of a person. People view people & life thru their own lenses of experience & trauma.
If someone tells me, “Oh he gets around, you don’t want that,” my 22 yo self would immediately dismiss that person with a negative label.
At 42, I’m now like “Thank God! I ain’t got time to f*ckin teach!” 🤣 For real. I want someone with experience. You add more to the table of life with more experience. With anything in life — not just sex.
You learn confidence. Likes/dislikes. How to be better & work with what you have. You put the puzzle pieces together to create your masterpiece.
It’s like getting really excited about a guy then having sex & finding out he has a really small penis. But he’s the guy with a really small penis that isn’t good at anything else so the whole experience is f*cking sh*t & you’re like, “Yep, never hittin that again.”😹
Whatever. Y’all are laughing, nodding, &/or ready to unfollow me right now. 🤭 It’s OK.
Live life for YOU. Not the opinions of others.
Ain’t nobody got time for bad sex, bad food, & watered-down cocktails.
Oxox Coach K
Katie Kelly is a nutritionist, writer, & travel registered radiologic technologist. A sweary Indiana farmer’s daughter who likes to describe herself as a storyteller, experience collector, & athlete of life. Former hot mess down 60lbs, in Crohn’s remission, & financially free with nothin’ but an airfryer & a prayer. Location: 𖡡 Aging gracefully somewhere between scrubs & steak.
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