I felt pretty #boilerup In transparency this photo was taken @officialsuntancity
Yes I occasionally tan, it makes me happy. Not asking for your opinion here😉🤷♀️
I don’t claim to be a business coach or Instagram expert, but I have been an active member on this space for over 10 yrs.
Had a flood of DM‘s centered around the topic of how to increase influence, exposure, & success via social media.
Never in a million years did I think my digital platform (& life) would grow to where it is today. I’m flattered this many people actually give a sh*t as to what I have to share. Grateful to have y’all as part of my digital family!
Y’all know I’m a responder by nature when it comes to communication. I like to provide what you want, so here are a few lessons I’ve learned along my journey in this digital world I feel you can also apply to life in various facets. Take what you need❤️
Above all➡️consistency & realness are🔑
You don’t need perfect photos or a professional photographer. Be creative. They make incredible phone cameras. Show up authentically!
I love photo shoots personally, they give me such a sense of love & appreciation for myself as well as other people’s creative gifts, but they’re not necessary for credibility or worth nor do you need to do this to prove yourself. You don’t owe anyone anything.
People wanna see the real you. And if you ask yourself, “What would people say if they met me in ‘real life’ vs social media?” & it isn’t a response of, “She/He is exactly how they are on social media!” — you have an issue & inner work to do.
Like assessing: your integrity, values, who’s the human you wish to be, what message are you spreading & why, is it from ego, what is your purpose, do you have past trauma to nurture & heal?
⬆️ the BIGGIE.
Swipe for other quick tips jotted down on IG
Know that I love & appreciate all of you! I want you to be confident in believing your story matters, your voice matters, & the opinions of others don’t matter. What matters is you lead with love, purpose, & it sets your soul on fire❤️🔥
Why you need to chase what lights you up
The question I want you to ask yourself today is what lights you up?
Why you ask?
Because what’s embedded in your responses lies your answers.
I’ll share some of mine & stories you might relate to as well…
➡️I love money.
I didn’t always have a good relationship with money nor believed I was worthy of it. In fact I had a scarcity mindset the majority of my life. In the past few years I’ve learned I need to nurture my relationship with money just like any other.
Money gives me time, freedom, the ability to give back & invest in others. It gives me the ability to give myself things that light me up which in turn give me the energy & happiness to serve at my best.
I changed my story from the thoughts of “I’m greedy & money is bad.” to “I am worthy, smart, & compassionate because I know without money I’m not able to serve others or myself at my fullest capacity.”
➡️I love my health.
I know without my health I also cannot function at my highest capacity physically, mentally emotionally, intellectually, or financially.
This is why I work out 5d/week & eat food that nourishes my body to help me perform at my best. This also means taking time to rest. If you want to be a top-notch athlete you need to live & think like one.
➡️I love my relationships.
Without community connection in some way shape or form we lose our sense of purpose. Be mindful of the company you keep, make sure to surround yourself & consume an upleveling environment.
We were put here to learn, connect, live with Joy, & follow what lights us up.
The truth is we often forget by doing what light us up that is the fastest way to bring the abundance flow back to you.
It’s never too late to rewrite your story & I’ll remind you that there’s nothing enlightening about resisting pleasure, money, your health, etc & turning down the beauty in your heart.
“Don’t ask what the world needs, ask what makes you come alive & go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” -Howard Thurman
#mindsetmonday