Being scared but doing it anyways

Epiphany๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธFeel Iโ€™ve reached the point in my life I comfortably/confidently embrace I really have no idea what Iโ€™m doing but f*ck it Iโ€™m doing it anyways๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™ƒ

Anyone else,feels, too?

Numerous occasions Iโ€™ve had no idea what I wanted to do with my life, so, wellโ€ฆ๐Ÿค” I just started doin stuff scared sh*tless.

Yup๐Ÿ‘‰made a LOT of mistakes. But the beauty is you gain the data & experiences to make better decisions as an improved/wiser version of yourself.

I believe if I just keep going intentionally purposeful/hopeful as a kind/positive soul, everything will work out.

I think about the quote, โ€œYou can do anything, but you canโ€™t do everything.โ€ I acknowledge when Iโ€™m trying to do EVERYTHINGโžก๏ธwhich leads to burn out & then not wanting to do ANYTHING.

Iโ€™m not comfortable being โ€œin the middle.โ€ Iโ€™m either chill af or intense af. I thrive in extremes. I know theyโ€™re dopamine hits.

I need the periods of doing less to do more. I need the contrast. I no longer have shame in this realization about myself.

Iโ€™m constantly trimming & purging my life. To be honest I feel 2023 has been a year of unlearning, exploration, releasing, simplifying, & freedom.

I like having change AND routine. I need both to keep life grounded/interesting + vibrant!

I constantly savor deep connection + mental & physical stimulation๐Ÿ‘‰professionally, personally, physically, mentally, & relationally.

Iโ€™m proud to be at the point in life where Iโ€™m chill & content the majority of the time no matter what season.

Today I realized I donโ€™t run away from anything or anyone anymore. Iโ€™m already gone from what I wanted to escape. I am home in myself.

Iโ€™m home & running towards what comes next.

A CHAMPION to me is someone that loves the work of becoming one more than the idea of becoming one.

Friday morning feels๐Ÿซถ ๐ŸŒฝ ๐Ÿ

Feel good to be home in Indy for a few daysโ™ฅ๏ธ

Fire up for @warrenzeiders tonight!! ๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿค ๐Ÿชฉโœจ๐Ÿ’Ž

Oxox Coach K

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of healthcare, fitness, & personal development. Travel Radiographer, motivational writer, nutritionist, Medium โ€” gifts of many things, she grew up on her familyโ€™s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture & healthcare were her first loves. 

She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through Crohnโ€™s disease & life as a radiologic technologist with 18 years experience!

After decades of struggling with her own health issues from Crohnโ€™s, obesity, disordered eating, infertility, hormonal imbalances, & being a competitive CrossFit athlete, she is passionate about helping others find self love, embrace their gifts, achieve their goals, & create sustainable success habits for an EXTRAordinary life!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit : http://www.instagram.com/lil_bit_of_fit

Blog: Lilbitoffit.com

All links:  https://linktr.ee/lil_bit_of_fit

You can simply book a call via email: katieokelly2@gmail.com

The secret of a happy life is found in your snow globe

One of the best pieces of advice thru my #selfhealingjourney was about how to manage it allโ€œOne day at a time.โ€

How?๐Ÿค” 

๐Ÿ‘‰Acquire something that will fortify you against poverty (scarcity), against death (healthy living), loneliness (connection/love), stagnancy (personal improvement/purpose/service), etc.

Just make sure to do 1โ˜๏ธthing each day that positively moves your life forward. Thatโ€™s it.

When I was younger, I didnโ€™t quite understand when I heard people use the phrase, โ€œItโ€™s like polishing up a turd๐Ÿ’ฉ.โ€œ ๐Ÿ˜‚(I still laugh, but thereโ€™s extremely deep meaning to the comical reference.)

๐Ÿ’Ž๐Ÿ‘‰If you do not enhance & heal yourself, you cannot enhance & heal your experience.

Finding joy, peace, self-awareness, & self acceptance ARE your answers. Itโ€™s not a diet, a partner, a new relationship, money, or of singular worldly/material things.

๐Ÿ’ŽThe magic exists inside you. Youโ€™re like a snow globe. You can flip yourself upside down & shake shit up whenever you want to experience the magic. 

๐Ÿ’ŽYou can either become wise, or you can become wounded. 

The wounded:

Gossip. Bully. Kill. React. Scarcity mindset. Negative inner/outer chatter. Pessimistic. Are oftentimes unhealthy/sick/overweight/broke/sad/lonely/depressed. Feel like heavy black clouds when youโ€™re around them.

The wise:

Praise. Support. Accept. Respond. Growth/abundance mindset. Optimistic. Positive inner/outer chatter. Are oftentimes healthy/vibrant/more youthful/wealthy/happy/confident. Feel light/warm like a cup of hot cocoa & sunshine on a chilly day when youโ€™re around them. 

Donโ€™t get trapped in the logic of life, get trapped in the loving & living of life.

I think about the contrast of how I live my life now vs how I used to live my lifeโ€ฆ

โ€ฆpeople think Iโ€™m crazy to do travel Xray b due to the constant change, nomadism, challenges, & the unknown. ( โ€œtravel nurseโ€ life for those new here)

And ya know, I thought Iโ€™d feel ungrounded & constantly homesick but Iโ€™ve never felt more authentically rooted & confident in myself, EVER

Yes, it is a stressful af lifestyle. It changes constantly, Iโ€™m challenged constantly, but Iโ€™m experiencing WEALTHS of extraordinary emotions/skills/& real life sh*t that have filled my tool belt of life! Iโ€™m constant collecting wisdom & memories.

Iโ€™m (FINALLY imo) building a mudder truckinโ€™ life right now. โœจ 

I didnโ€™t do this in the past. I lived on auto pilot. I didnโ€™t challenge myself daily. I stayed stuck in self sabotaging habits. I accepted my past story as my forever story, & in turn, I was lonely, miserable, overweight, sick, unfulfilled & aimlessly wandering void of the nourishing feels/experiences/fulfillment I desired. 

Hopefully this helps you gain insight & INVOKE awesome-sauce & badassery inside of your snow globe.

Shake shit up.

Do it whenever you want.

I believe you!

You donโ€™t need to know or find your purpose to start living life. This is where we get things wrong. You need to simply start living + challenging yourself (& others/society).

I promise you will find the things that make sense, light you up & pave the golden path in front of you. 

You donโ€™t find the yellow brick road by doubting yourself, Dorothy. Shake your globe, find your Ruby Red slippers๐Ÿ‘ โœจ๐Ÿ˜‰ 

XOXO

๐Ÿ‘‰ always your biggest fan

Coach K

bio carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly indiana fishers

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of healthcare, fitness, & personal development. Travel Radiographer, motivational writer, nutritionist, Medium โ€” gifts of many things, she grew up on her familyโ€™s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture & healthcare were her first loves. 

She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through Crohnโ€™s disease & life as a radiologic technologist with 18 years experience!

After decades of struggling with her own health issues from Crohnโ€™s, obesity, disordered eating, infertility, hormonal imbalances, & being a competitive CrossFit athlete, she is passionate about helping others find self love, embrace their gifts, achieve their goals, & create sustainable success habits for an EXTRAordinary life!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit : http://www.instagram.com/lil_bit_of_fit

Blog: Lilbitoffit.com

All links:  https://linktr.ee/lil_bit_of_fit

You can simply book a call via email: katieokelly2@gmail.com

Vibrational Living: how it helped me attract love & money, heal my gut, lose fat/weight, & continuously/effortlessly create & live my dream life

๐š‚๐š๐š’๐š•๐š• ๐š˜๐šž๐š ๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š‹๐šŽ๐š’๐š—๐š ๐šœ๐š™๐šŠ๐š›๐š”๐š•๐šข & ๐š ๐šŽ๐š’๐š›๐š & ๐šŠ๐š ๐š”๐š ๐šŠ๐š›๐š ๐šŠ๐šโœŒ๏ธ #๐šœ๐šŽ๐š•๐š๐š•๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐šŒ๐š‘๐šŽ๐šŒ๐š” โœ…

These are my favorite sparkly PJ pants. They came from @target Little girls size 14. They are not โ€œflatteringโ€ at all & I could give a shit less. A former version of me would not wear these because I didnโ€™t look โ€œskinnyโ€ in them.

๐Ÿ’๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ, ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป, ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฒ.

I prefer this me, this 41 year old, weird as shit version of me probably more than any other version of me. (And Iโ€™ve been a lot of versions of me! ๐Ÿ‘€) 

Iโ€™ve been a competitive CrossFit athlete, runner, cardio queen, jacked, fat, skinny fat, partnered, single, married, divorced twice, with men, with women, confused af, broke af, happy af, lost af, fuggn you name it.

If you scroll my feed & peep highlights Iโ€™ve been all shapes & sizes & everything in between. (๐™ผ๐šข๐š‘๐šŽ๐šŠ๐š•๐š’๐š—๐š/๐š•๐š’๐š๐šŽ/๐š ๐šŽ๐š’๐š๐š‘๐š ๐š•๐š˜๐šœ๐šœ ๐šœ๐š๐š˜๐š›๐šข ๐š’๐šœ ๐š’๐š— ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ ๐š•๐š’๐š—๐š” ๐š’๐š— ๐š–๐šข ๐™ธ๐™ถ ๐š‹๐š’๐š˜) link below ๐Ÿ‘‡

https://lilbitoffit.com/1-year-on-the-carnivore-diet-my-story-journey-transitioning-to-a-meat-based-carnivore-diet/

I now embrace an intuitive, vibrationally lead life. And I wish this for all of you too. I wish you healing, happiness, & love. #vibrationalliving #vibrationaleating 

๐ˆ๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ‘‰๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ.

Enjoy my thoughts from this morning. I hope they lead you where youโ€™re meant to be.

Take what you need, leave the rest.

Love yourself.

Be kind

Donโ€™t be a dick.

ใ€ ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๏ผฌ๏ฝ‰๏ฝ†๏ฝ…ใ€€๏ฝ‰๏ฝ“ใ€€๏ฝ’๏ฝ…๏ฝ๏ฝŒ๏ฝŒ๏ฝ™ใ€€๏ฝ”๏ฝˆ๏ฝ๏ฝ”ใ€€๏ฝ“๏ฝ‰๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝŒ๏ฝ…๏ผŽใ€‘


Book suggestion๐Ÿ‘‰Please read ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐…๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐€๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌโ€ฆchanged my life. short read. I live by these 4 agreements & my own personal creed which I share in IG stories.

Vibrational Living. 

What is it, how it helped me attract love & money, heal my gut, lose fat/weight, & continuously/effortlessly create & live my dream life.

Letโ€™s get real here (yโ€™all know if youโ€™ve followed me for a while thatโ€™s how we roll)โ€ฆ๐Ÿ‘‰I used to be a sick, overweight, unhappy, lonely, broke bitch. ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธIt is what it is.

We donโ€™t filter around here because real life isnโ€™t filtered. Itโ€™s dirty, itโ€™s beautiful, itโ€™s pain, itโ€™s pleasure & every shade of 50 shades of fucked up AND amazingness & everything in between. โ˜€๏ธโ˜”๏ธ ๐ŸŒˆ ๐ŸŽจ๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿฅ€

Life: 

Itโ€™s death. Itโ€™s rebirth. Its peaks. Its valleys. Itโ€™s sunshine. Itโ€™s rain. The only thing that is guaranteed is that things are going to change.

Iโ€™ve lost 55lbs of weight, self-loathing, scarcity energy, + a bunch of fucks I did not need to give as a younger version of myself. I fully believe releasing that anxiety & emotional weight was actually what helped me open my chakras & release the physical weight.

I like to stay away from labels & allow myself + others to have the freedom to eat & live & love as they choose. I called this vibrational living. I eat this way & workout this way. I love this way. I invest my money this way. I dress this way๐Ÿ‘‰ I do everything this way.

This is what myย MOย means when I say โ€œI donโ€™t do rules I do what feels right.โ€

Straight up, Hereโ€™s whatโ€™s making you fat, sick, sad, anxiety stricken, broke, unfulfilled, & lonely: (I did all these things too. But I chose to make a decision & stick to my commitments to change & co-create a better me & the life of MY dreams)

Thoughts about feeling MIS๐Ÿšซaligned in Vibration๐Ÿ“ดAnxiety is NOT your problem. Anxiety & triggers are just trying to get your ATTENTION. 

WHY you feel anxiety, depression, unfulfillment, self loathing, sadness, loneliness, &/or WHY you binge eat, over spend, people please, over work, sleep around, drink, smoke, self sabotage, etcโ€ฆ

โ€ฆyou donโ€™t feel safe, seen, heard, understood, accepted in your life/body/relationship/job/whatevs you wanna out here. You lack purpose & are confused af. Youโ€™ve lost yourself. You donโ€™t trust yourself &/or other people.

Self sabotage is addictive. It can be like a dopamine hit. Anxieties & triggers are your smoke detector in your kitchen.

Identify self sabotaging behaviors. Your body would be FAILING you if you didnโ€™t recognize you were lonely, sick, unhappy & all the other feels too.

Start the change by by SHOWING up. Shift & become your own safe house. Then you can be one for others. ๐Ÿก ๐Ÿ’• 

๐Ÿค˜Go first & just be weird.

You need communication AND connection. You can have one without the other which leads to imbalance. Stop the โ€˜shame spiralโ€™.

Steps to building a non-anxious, vibrationally aligned life:

#1 โ€“ Choose YOUR TRUTH & reality.

#2 โ€“ Choose true connection with yourself & others.

#3 โ€“ Choose freedom & joy in every sense of the words!

#4 โ€“ Choose mindfulness, nourishment, kindness, inner peace, belief, self love, optimism, goodness in all.

A question that changes it all: What do I need right now? Now pause. Breathe. And answer from your heart & your gut.

Love you. Mean it.ย ๐Ÿซถ

bio carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly indiana fishers

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of healthcare, fitness, & personal development. Travel Radiographer, motivational writer, nutritionist, Medium โ€” gifts of many things, she grew up on her familyโ€™s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture & healthcare were her first loves. 

She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through Crohnโ€™s disease & life as a radiologic technologist with 18 years experience!

After decades of struggling with her own health issues from Crohnโ€™s, obesity, disordered eating, infertility, hormonal imbalances, & being a competitive CrossFit athlete, she is passionate about helping others find self love, embrace their gifts, achieve their goals, & create sustainable success habits for an EXTRAordinary life!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit : http://www.instagram.com/lil_bit_of_fit

Blog: Lilbitoffit.com

All links:  https://linktr.ee/lil_bit_of_fit

You can simply book a call via email: katieokelly2@gmail.com

Thrifting, lifting, Country Style Ribs + how to build your strength workout program

Who do you think you are?โ€ she asked me (my supervisor).

In a performance review when I was 27 I was told that I had a โ€œstrong silenceโ€ & was โ€œdifferentโ€ which others took as me being arrogant & cold & that I โ€œneeded to be more understanding of other peopleโ€˜s weaknesses.โ€

๐Ÿ’๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธIn Beth Dutton fashion, let me interpret this: โ€œYour resting bitch face, your sparkle, & the fact you can do other peopleโ€™s jobs better make them uncomfortable.โ€ ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ˜†

It was eye-opening & ego shattering at the same time. I had no idea that was how I was being perceived. It did encourage me to sit down & observe past behaviors & presentation & how I was “different.”

At that time I was going thru a divorce, in radiology school full-time & working part time on top of it. As I put it, stressed to the titties.๐Ÿซฃ

I was like come on sister, my life feels like getting stuck halfway putting on a sports bra when youโ€™re sweaty & ya need Jesus to come down & cut you out of it ๐Ÿ˜‚ 

When youโ€™re โ€œdifferentโ€ & a โ€œhigh performerโ€ in life, you might notice that some other people, well โ€” arenโ€™t.

If you want a great life, tattoo these words on your brain: LIFE IS NOT HARD ON YOU; YOU MAKE LIFE HARD FOR YOURSELF.

Life can be hard & people wonโ€™t understand you sometimes, yes, but the majority of the โ€œhardโ€ sh*t in life people think is really “hard” in my opinion is really the EASY SH*T. 

Just be you & stop over complicating things. People donโ€™t need to understand you you just have to love yourself.

Took myself thrift shopping & a rainy date to the gym yesterday. Had a beautiful day of treasure hunting!

The thing Iโ€™ve learned over the years is that many live life haphazardly complacent in a mediocre, lost stateโ€ฆ

I hope this can meet you with inspiration today โค๏ธ

Oxox Coach K

HOW TO SHOP AT THRIFT STORES: 7 TIPS FOR FINDING THE HIDDEN GEMS

1. Go in with the right mindsetโ€”itโ€™s about finding a treasure.

2. Look through everything, ALL sections. Try them on, they look different on ๐Ÿ™‚ If it looks even remotely interesting, throw it in the cart. Have fun!

4. Go often & when the store opens to get the best buys.

5. Feel good supporting the community! My FAVorite part is giving back! My thrift store order of ops: Mom & pop stores โ†’ Church stores โ€”> Salvation Army โ€”> Goodwill.

6.Wear outfits that are easy to layer over so you don’t need a fitting room.

7. Buy it if you LOVE it!

HOW TO BUILD A STRENGTH TRAINING ROUTINE

COUNTRY STYLE AIR FRYER RIBS RECIPE

bio carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly indiana fishers

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of healthcare, fitness, & personal development. Travel Radiographer, motivational writer/speaker, nutritionist โ€” doer of many things, she grew up on her familyโ€™s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture & healthcare were her first loves. 

She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through Crohnโ€™s disease & life as a radiologic technologist with 18 years experience!

After decades of struggling with her own health issues from Crohnโ€™s, obesity, disordered eating, infertility, hormonal imbalances, & being a competitive athlete, she is passionate about helping others find self love, achieve their goals, & create sustainable success habits for an EXTRAordinary life!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit & blog, Lilbitoffit.com

http://www.instagram.com/lil_bit_of_fit