How To Lose Body Fat And Maintain Your Weight Loss

“Who does she think she is?”⁣
⁣…Well it appears she is someone who is living her life unconcerned with who you think she is.”⁣
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Anyone else need to make that quote your screensaver? 

Tips for you today!
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Things I had to do to lose body fat and why you can’t maintain your weight loss

Suggestions to live by starting now:⁣⁣

  • Repeat, “Every day in every way I am better & better.” Every. Day.⁣ Post-it on your bathroom mirror.
  • A negative, self sabotaging mindset will do more damage than any piece of cake. ⁣ Saying, “Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels” is bs. I can think of 100 different things right now that feel &/or tastes as good as skinny feels. (Some are not IG/Blog appropriate LOL!)
  • You can choose your diet & your foods, but you will never OPTIMIZE your health/physique when dieting if you don’t follow these simple rules:⁣⁣
    • Prioritize protein & eat food that optimizes digestion.
    • If you don’t eat enough, you’ll also lose muscle. The more muscle you lose, the lower your metabolic rate, the less food you can eat, the less “tone” you will have.
    • Doesn’t matter if the food is “healthy” if you bloat & cant digest it — it’s not nourishing you efficiently.
    • Skinny syrups & sugar free jello aren’t food groups, they belong in the trash
    • Sleep & Move. Trust, life will suck a whole lot less in every facet if you get enough sleep & simply walk.⁣
    • Resistance Train. Resistance training helps preserve muscle & metabolic rate. You wanna look good naked right? You wanna eat food right? You wanna eat tacos & all the beef confidently while being naked right? (Maybe that’s just me 🙂 )⁣
  • ⁣⁣Accept you will never look the same. Periodize your nutrition. We have seasons for a reason. A number does not define you. You are the sum of all your gifts & imperfections. That’s why people love you. If people don’t like you — fxck’em be you anyways, & be KIND.⁣
  • Placing worth on titles, achievements, numbers, & people pleasing don’t make you happy. You do. It’s a state of being. Do the inner work to heal. Our shadows can make us do & say things that aren’t kind or becoming. Kindness is always cool.⁣

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Community Question & Answer: “HELP! I’ve lost & regained the same 10-20lbs pretty much my entire life!”

Used to be me too. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard people say this, so let me start out by saying that having the “perfect” diet or macros are rarely the weight loss issue.

When it comes to losing weight, it’s quite easy if you set yourself up for success. Eat less for a period of time, & you’ll likely lose weight. Most of us have the willpower to diet for a couple weeks & lose 5-10 lbs.

What most don’t understand is that once you lose weight, your dietary intake needs to support that new weight loss in order to maintain it. Reverting to your old habits will result in weight regain.

weight loss before and after carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly
I’ve lost 55lbs in my lifetime and kept it off! Read more about how I did it HERE

Many focus on simply the outcome or a quick fix & not the processes like daily actions & routine to cultivate a new lifestyle to become the person you actually want to be. If you want to lose weight & change your body & your LIFE long-term, then YOU MUST commit to it every day.

Everyone wants to believe that there’s some hack or “secret” successful people know about that they don’t – there isn’t.

The only “secret” I’ve found is called:

“Know what you want out of life, & do the things you need to do to get it.”

-Coach K

If you want to make success easier & the “right” decisions, diet, workouts, etc, automatic…

You need to get crystal clear on your values & vision.

Because when you know exactly what you want & what you value & what is realistic & sustainable for you…

…everything else becomes easier. You simply act in alignment with your values automatically.

Every decision is easy when you know what matters. Because your values & vision drive every decision.

There are tons of habits that I’ve outlined in previous posts, & they will look slightly different for each person. However, your current dietary habits support & align with the body you currently have. Unless you change them long-term, your physique will not change.

Some habits might include:
eating at the same times each day, no snacking
making sure you’re hitting your protein & staying within your calories
resistance training 4-5x per week
hitting your daily step & sleep goal

It may seem like a lot of small monotonous tasks, but once you start doing them regularly, they become part of your life & make a HUGE impact.

There are no secrets to improving your body, it just takes work. The sooner you come to terms with it, the sooner you can be on your way to creating the physique you want!

Things I had to do to lose body fat

  • Realize cardio should be used as a lever and not abused.
  • Do just enough for enjoyment, get 10k steps/day minimum. It should not solely be done in excess and in the absence of strength training.
  • Our bodies are smart, they will adapt to you over exercising which means it will take even more to get results.
  • More is not always better. Train smarter not harder. Strength & resistance training should be the foundation of your workouts. 3-5 workouts per week is appropriate. Get your steps, this doesn’t mean always doing HIIT.
  • You have to build the “toned” physique first. Its much easier to maintain once you go through a proper building phase. Which means you need to EAT as well.
  • Losing fat means you need a calorie deficit, but that doesn’t mean you need to slash your calories down to 1200 or even 1500 in most cases if you’ve done the due diligence to reverse diet and eat like a well nourished human and not a toddler.
  • Stick to a consistent, sustainable calorie deficit.
  • You can’t over exercise a poor diet. It will also make you hungrier and life will suck.
  • Protein should always be the priority. Meals should be protein centric.
  • You body can’t build or maintain muscle without it. Your body also burns more calories simply digesting protein more than carbs and fat. Its called thermodynamics.
  • Most do well with meals containing 30-50g of protein & eat real food, primarily meat. 1g/lb of body wt for most, goal wt if you have more to lose. Protein also keeps you more satiated. Life will suck less.
  • If you need to increase your calorie burn, simply increase your daily steps. Another reason to use cardio wisely and as a lever.
  • If you’re getting in 8k, increase it to 10k, if you get 10k, increase it to 12-15k. Walk after meals, in the morning, park further away, walk during commercials, take the stairs. Walking also decreases stress. We were made to move.
  • Quality sleep is also absolutely necessary. This is a non-negotiable. 7-9 hrs/night. Our brains, muscles, and body recover when we sleep.
  • Stress management is super important. The higher your stress, the higher your cortisol, the higher your blood sugar, the harder it is to lose body fat.
  • You cannot function at your highest when you’re sleepy & stressed to the titties. Stop being impatient af. It takes time, grace, & effort.

Thank you for allowing me to add values to your lives!

Again, All links, discount codes, guides, recipes, coaching, & more are located here

oxox Coach K

bio carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly indiana fishers

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of health, mindset, human connection, & entrepreneurship. Motivational writer, speaker, doer of many things, she grew up on her family’s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture was her first love. She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through her own relationships, financial struggles, Crohn’s Disease, disordered eating, body transformation, & adapting to a carnivore diet lifestyle.

Katie also has over 17 years experience as a Registered Radiologic Technologist, Nutritionist, Brand Growth & Sales Consultant. She works with people of all walks of life as a nutritionist & life coach to help them authentically optimize their lives to find health, wealth, & happy!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit & blog, Lilbitoffit.com

A letter to my fellow late bloomers

girl at sunrise

A woman aged 37 who thought her life was a failure because she wasn’t where she wanted to be in life at her age sent a DM.

She felt miserable, trapped. Thought she couldn’t start over because she was too old & a mother of 4. Her message was moving. I felt for her not only because of the great sadness she was expressing, but also because I am a #latebloomer

I sent her some journaled thoughts I wrote a while back on aging & things we should “normalize” in hopes of giving her some inspiration. I wrote these in a “magic dark” period where I was, frankly, pissed off at life, lost & confused.
Enjoy.

How bout some things to normalize…

Instead of bragging about your drinking skills like it’s something impressive, how bout we normalize impressing others by savoring the experience, not getting wasted, being present with your feelings & improving your life?

Not settling, high vibes, & good energy as our norm.

Falling in love with yourself.

Telling people you love them. Hugging, letting them linger. Whatever, make it weird 

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Not bashing exes, other people, or ideals different than yours. How bout the Golden Rule?

Not doing rules, but doing what feels right. Leading with your heart & your gut. Anything done from a place of love & positive energy isn’t wrong.

Living by the Four Agreements: Be Impeccable With Your Word. Don’t Take Anything Personally. Don’t Make Assumptions. Always Do Your Best.

But seriously.
Normalize finding love in your 40’s & beyond. Normalize transformation & change, chasing new dreams at any age. Normalize finding yourself only to get lost again & find yourself again & being ok with it. Normalize not having a timeline yet scripting & having faith in the life & body you desire. Knowing the Universe will take care of the How.

Life doesn’t end at 25. 40 isn’t old. Aging is a privilege & life can start whenever we say it does.

Cheers to all my fellow late bloomers!

Happy Easter from one of my sanctuaries to yours

oxox Coach K

bio carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly indiana fishers

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of health, mindset, human connection, & entrepreneurship. Motivational writer, speaker, doer of many things, she grew up on her family’s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture was her first love.

She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through her own relationships, financial struggles, Crohn’s Disease, disordered eating, body transformation, & adapting to a carnivore diet lifestyle.

Katie also has over 17 years experience as a Registered Radiologic Technologist, Nutritionist, & Brand Growth & Sales Consultant. She works with people of all walks of life as a nutritionist & life coach to help them authentically optimize their lives to find health, wealth, & happy!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit & blog, Lilbitoffit.com

http://www.instagram.com/lil_bit_of_fit

Vulnerability is the way. You were meant to hear these shameful confessions and message today.

MENTAL HEALTH: THE MOST COMMON THOUGHTS & FEELINGS OF SUICIDAL MEN.

One of the bravest things I ever did was own my eating disorder & hate for myself.

One of the bravest acts of faith in myself,
as a person of worth that wasn’t attached to what I looked like or what I achieved, was getting rid of an old pair of Abercrombie jeans that I bought that were two sizes too small.

how carnivore healed my crohn's disease and binge eating
You can read about my gut healing & weight loss story here in this blog!

Because I told myself when I was skinny enough to fit into these jeans, that’s when I would be happy & worthy.

No one wants to be uncomfortable. Everyone wants to be brave but no one wants to be vulnerable.

Vulnerability is not knowing, but doing it anyways out of faith because your heart tells you to.

That’s true bravery & courage.

Being a true leader is being honest about yourself & your life & saying I’m 50 shades of f* led up & I love every bit of it & I’m here to share my story & be vulnerable to help others out there who are too afraid to live the truth of their own lives.

Choose courage over comfort. You cannot be a leader or a luminary without being vulnerable. You can’t have both.

Love & empathy get you through the shame shit storms.

You own your story.
You write your pages.
And by you sharing your life, authentically, you’re giving someone else hope to do the same.

That is being a leader.

I hope you enjoy this message & it meets you where you need ❤️

Oxox Coach K

bio carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly indiana fishers

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of health, mindset, human connection, & entrepreneurship. Motivational writer, speaker, doer of many things, she grew up on her family’s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture was her first love. She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through her own relationships, financial struggles, Crohn’s Disease, disordered eating, body transformation, & adapting to a carnivore diet lifestyle.

Katie also has over 17 years experience as a Registered Radiologic Technologist, Nutritionist, Brand Growth & Sales Consultant. She works with people of all walks of life as a nutritionist & life coach to help them authentically optimize their lives to find health, wealth, & happy!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit & blog, Lilbitoffit.com

http://www.instagram.com/lil_bit_of_fit

MENTAL HEALTH: THE MOST COMMON THOUGHTS & FEELINGS OF SUICIDAL MEN.

MENTAL HEALTH: THE MOST COMMON THOUGHTS & FEELINGS OF SUICIDAL MEN.

A conversation starter & something to think about: Mental Health & the Challenges Men Face.

Disclaimer: The following contains discussions of suicide & tough subjects that may be triggering

MENTAL HEALTH: THE MOST COMMON THOUGHTS & FEELINGS OF SUICIDAL MEN.

Balancing all of life’s demands–school, work, relationships, finances–can be stressful for anyone. And on top of our everyday challenges, going through certain transitions – losing a job, being a negative relationship, experiencing a break-up, questioning one’s identity, grieving a loved one, etc – could challenge any of us.

Had a DM from a gentleman expressing his mental struggles & the feeling he didn’t know who to turn to or how to express or cope without being seen as “less than a man.”

This conversation sparked the yearning for me to better understand the truth around this matter & why he was feeling this way.

As a woman, societal’s pressures & expectations are different. It’s a fact, it is what it is, this has been since the beginning of time🤷‍♀️

Here are some thoughts around research & content I discovered that helped open my eyes & I hope it opens your mind & heart as well.

As a reminder, you are in a unique position to notice warning signs that someone might be feeling more overwhelmed by stress, sadness & LIFE in general they feel is more than is manageable.

Be a kind human. Seek first to understand. Listen. Make someone feel understood & heard.

We need empathy, compassion, & kindness more than ever right now ! ❤️🫶

Thank you for listening! 👂 🎙️

Oxox Coach K

bio carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly indiana fishers

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of health, mindset, human connection, & entrepreneurship. Motivational writer, speaker, doer of many things, she grew up on her family’s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture was her first love. She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through her own relationships, financial struggles, Crohn’s Disease, disordered eating, body transformation, & adapting to a carnivore diet lifestyle.

Katie also has over 17 years experience as a Registered Radiologic Technologist, Nutritionist, Brand Growth & Sales Consultant. She works with people of all walks of life as a nutritionist & life coach to help them authentically optimize their lives to find health, wealth, & happy!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit & blog, Lilbitoffit.com

http://www.instagram.com/lil_bit_of_fit

This Is Why You’re Not Getting What You Want

woman sunrise coffee

Be who you wish you had grown up seeing in the mirror, the one you’ll proudly & affectionately look back on being, & the one savoring the process becoming them

🦋

It’s 5:55am this is likely & algorithmically the worst time to post 

🤷‍♀️
girl sitting on couch with coffee in the morning

 Alas, sometimes we just need to create when we have the mental real estate to do so.

We get so stuck in what’s next we don’t take enough pause to see how far we’ve come.

I cringed at my first stretch mark & belly roll.
I bought the lotions & creams, I cursed the genetics that gave them to me. I hated food – it was the enemy. The thing that made me fat & “undesirable.”

That’s where we started.

Now?
I feel nothing except gratitude for “flaws.”
They did everything they were supposed to.

I was the girl who wore a T-shirt over her bathing suit for years both because I was ashamed of my body & overweight, & I was always in pain, bloated, struggling with gut issues — which made me a miserable person because that’s how I chose to react.

I empathize with anyone struggling with a dis-ease that makes them feel like a prisoner in their own body, that makes them feel lost & weird & less than & hopeless.

I have scars from surgery on my abdomen. I have a scar from a navel ring, which I got when I turned 18 because my parents told me I couldn’t 

😂

I have creases & cellulite & stretch marks on my tummy & thighs because my body is miraculous & adaptable.

I have belly rolls when I sit down just like you. I have tons of sunspots & freckles & wrinkles from days making memories in the sun.

I’ve survived cervical cancer, infertility, renal stones, eating disorders, obesity, chronic pain from #crohnsdisease , scoliosis & old injuries, broken bones, depression, childhood & relationship trauma, debt in so many more ways than money…

…it’s called life. And we have the power to control how we respond to things

❤️

Take your power back.

Oxox Coach K

bio carnivore lilbitoffit katie kelly indiana fishers

Hailing from Fishers, Indiana, Katie is an aficionado of health, mindset, human connection, & entrepreneurship. Motivational writer, speaker, doer of many things, she grew up on her family’s beef cattle & crop farm where agriculture was her first love. She is a Purdue University graduate well known for her storytelling of life lessons & personal transformation through her own relationships, financial struggles, Crohn’s Disease, disordered eating, body transformation, & adapting to a carnivore diet lifestyle.

Katie also has over 17 years experience as a Registered Radiologic Technologist, Nutritionist, Brand Growth & Sales Consultant. She works with people of all walks of life as a nutritionist & life coach to help them authentically optimize their lives to find health, wealth, & happy!

You can catch her via Instagram @lil_bit_of_fit & blog, Lilbitoffit.com