Stuck between young enough to do it often, old enough to do it right & old enough to know better, young enough not to care.
-mood.
Anyone else? đ
2020 was hard work, 2021 has been no different. Itâs like we thought with a new year everything would magically be rainbows & sunshine, right?!
Reflecting back, I feel the years 2018-today have been the most transformative (painful & pleasurable) years of my life, physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, spiritually, & relationally.
Doesnât matter what level of 50 shades of fxcked up I wade thru, even in a global pandemic, I love having something to work towards. Call it an obsession, whatever, kind of like the obsession I have with my airfryer & crisy meat bars.
Yâall can thank me, I know Iâm not the only one out there đđĽŠâ¨ď¸â¤ď¸
Where To Begin
One thing I learned the last 2 years was that things can change in a heart beat! Relationally speaking, I went from being single, to a solid relationship, to single again, to married, to divorced. Some would be devastated, however, being the relentless optimist, I am so grateful for every sweet & sour drop of experience I gained thru that chapter of my life. No ragrets , no what ifâs, yâallđ Not one bit.
I always go back to how I want to FEEL in my life (on all levels), I romanticize about specific things I desire but I leave the specificity to the Universe (God, whatever you choose to believe in. FYI, I am a non-specific manifestor, manifesting generator energy type #humandesign for all my people of WOO⨠out there)
I believe in divine timing, that I deserve everything I desire, & the Universe will bring me that – OR BETTER. (That âor betterâpart is important. Setting intentions I always add that to the end of my statements.)
So it was important for me to begin with thinking how I want to FEEL in 12 months time.
I started by writing a long list of all the descriptive words that resonated with me. Words such as authentic, healthy, successful, wealthy, luscious, thriving, vibrant, loving, grateful, loved, significant, creative, satisfied, joyful.
I kept thinking them through until I decided on the word, NOURISHED.
Immediately I knew that was how I wanted to feel.
Nourishment is usually associated with food however I want to apply that feeling to all parts of my life.
By focusing on how I want to FEEL, it reminds me what I could influence regardless of what was happening in the worldâ¤ď¸
Have you set yourself any goals? Or are you just seeing how the year pans out?
As always I would love to hear your thoughts & I appreciate yâall reading the ramblings of @lil_bit_of_fit đ
Peace, love, & đĽŠ
Oxox -Coach K