You’re not going to get THERE, by doing what you did to get HERE. Every uplevel in life requires a different you. Stop shrinking yourself to fit places you’ve outgrown.
These photos – just a couple of my seasons. I love them both & they both required a completely different woman.
If you’re gonna change – positive, upleveling change looks like:
- Asking for what you want & being assertive in situations where you would’ve been silent
- Not feeling bad or apologetic for asking for what you want, your needs, your dreams, your voice, your opinion, your authenticity, your space, your introvert, or your extrovert
- Setting boundaries, having those conversations you don’t want to have
- Acknowledging your deservingness & worth, opening yourself up to receive abundance, unapologetically requesting & accepting being paid for your time
- Accepting help when offered, it’s not a sign of weakness
- Allowing yourself to feel & be whatever feels intuitively right for you without worrying about labels or judgment. We matter simply because we exist
- Celebrating every win, every joyous moment, receiving & giving acts of kindness & love
- Cultivating self helping habits, routines, grace
Some of my favorite Jim Rohn quotes:
“Don’t say, ‘If I could, I would.’ Say, ‘If I can, I will.’”
“Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom.”
“If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary.”
“Work harder on yourself than you do on your job.”
“You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.”
“You don’t get paid for the hour. You get paid for the value you bring to the hour.”
“Life and business is like the changing seasons. You cannot change the seasons, but you can change yourself. Therein lies the opportunity to live an extraordinary life–the opportunity to change yourself.”
I don’t know about you, but these lit me up today! Enjoy Loves oxox