You are where you are in life because you choose to be there.
Face the truth.
On some level, you feel like you deserve to be where you’re at in life, even if you don’t like your life. I’ve been there.
If you’re getting paid “less than you’re worth,” it’s because you’re not getting paid less than you’re worth. If you agree to a certain wage, you literally accept that wage as what you’re worth.
If you keep people in your life who don’t treat you well, you’re keeping them there because you have low self-worth. After all, if your self-worth was high you wouldn’t allow people to treat you that way.
The secret to a sexy life? Well, it’s not exactly what I thought it would be. It’s actually in doing the “unsexy” the majority of the time.
You see I figured out that “life” truly happens in the interlude & inbetweens.
I don’t know about y’all, but the last 4 years of my life have been UNREAL.
I went from being broke af, single af, sick af, lonely af, lost af
to
abundant af, healthy af, happy af, to married af, to divorced & single af again & everything in between!
That’s only a percentage of the roller coaster ride that strangers I meet & write for find delight in listening to.
My “regular” daily life?
Workout. Work. Write. Create. Read. Learn, Sleep. Repeat.
I found by walking the line of structure & spontaneity, that THAT in between was the secret sauce to finding the sexy life.
For me, the only way to facilitate such sweet serendipity was to keep leveling myself up in life — unlocking access to richer experiences, better health, & deeper people. That meant cultivating upleveling habits, environments, mindset, & goals.
So, if you’re puffing cig after cig before getting drunk at the local bar every night the only “serendipity” you might unlock is a clumsy, dumpster fire make-out sesh with someone with more baggage than a trash truck & a hangover the next day.
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oxox Coach K