How To Read People and Get What You Want

No matter what your profession or relationship status, effective communication is imperative.

I’ve worked in healthcare, sales & consulting, & as a nutritionist for almost 18 years. I’ve learned much from every experience & person I’ve met along the way. They’ve helped me not only learn more about myself, but others & in turn “get what I want.”
Because let’s not bullsh*t ourselves, at the end of the day we want to get what WE want, right?!

I learned I needed to recognize & understand someone’s energy &/or read a room in order to better help & serve.

What most people don’t know is that when you change your energy & learn to communicate well, you change your life!

Your perceptions & energy are powered by your thoughts, emotions, experiences & how you see the world.

So if you want to feel happier in life, you need to communicate well, be present & assertive, raise your vibration, learn how to portray yourself in the way you desire to be interpreted — & vice versa with other people.

The 1st step of any change or observation is awareness. When you become aware of your own energy, then you can start to transform it. Moreover, raising your energy & self awareness will help you recognize that of others.

This is helpful in business, parenting, dating & relationships (platonic or romantic) because you’ll have a better idea of who & whose energy you want to be around & boundaries you need to put in place.

The power of observation is a necessary tool in learning how to read people. In these situations, nonverbal cues (posture, body language, clothing/hair, personal style, habitual behaviors, gestures, facial expressions) will give you more information than verbal or written cues.

And remember, while your interpretation of someone may or may not always be accurate, I’ve found when you’re solid in trusting yourself & observing WELL, your intuition is rarely wrong.

Hope this helps y’all!
Oxox Coach K

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