70% of leadership is how you lead yourself. There is a difference between leadership & management just like there’s a difference between preaching & practicing what you preach.
I strive to be the best woman I can be for others & myself. Has nothing to do with perfection, everything about effort & intention.
Just like fitness, sharing a snippet of mine this morning with the 7am squad! Brutal.
I want to be a human that when someone talks about me I would hope that they would say she makes me want to be a better person.
Had plenty of wake up calls where I asked myself a few things:
- How do you maintain positivity in the face of negativity?
- How do you set goals & a plan to accomplish those goals?
- When do you stay committed to yourself despite lack of motivation or shade from others?
People will follow you if you give them a purposeful reason to. That is the foundation that 70% of leadership for yourself is built on.
I feel there are 3 kinds of leadership:
Physical leadership: Are you healthy & happy & nourished body, mind, & spirit to be strong & serve as a role model to others?
Mental leadership: social media brainwashes you & continuously puts what you want to see in front of you. What are you clicking on, subjecting yourself to, & what are you consuming?
Find the people you want to be like, that you want to embody so you can learn from them & be better. Release the individuals who don’t take you where you want to go.
Emotional leadership: The ability to stay balanced & even keeled. Choosing positivity in the face of negativity.
Watch your thoughts. Watch your words. Know your mission & values.
Your mission should be built on the foundation of your values.
So what are your values?
Mine: Service. Health. Wealth & Freedom. Self Nourishment. Extraordinary Relationships.
So with that, I’ll step off my soapbox
“Be who you are and say how you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.” Dr. Seuss
I love you all!
Oxox
Coach K